THE ROLE OF MANNERS IN RECOGNIZING AN INTELLIGENT PERSON
Keywords:
Manners,intelligence, social intelligence, emotional intelligence, diplomats, educators, executives, cross-cultural communication, professional success , polite behaviorAbstract
This article explores the role of manners in recognizing a person's intelligence, emphasizing that universal manners such as kindness, gratitude, and humility are recognized and appreciated across all cultures. They serve as reliable indicators of social and emotional intelligence. The article provides examples from the lives of diplomats, educators, and executives, demonstrating how manners contribute to successful interactions and professional achievements. The conclusion highlights the importance of manners not only as a social norm but also as a key aspect of true intelligence.
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